hmmmm... briefly... i usually just laugh at celebrity gossip but true story this joint with alicia keys and swizz beats is crazy. and the reason it has gotten my attention so much is bc i can totally relate to it, not directly but in the crazy amounts of women i know personally that have been thru that ish. in every situation there is an ideal approach and a realistic approach. we all know the ideal approach may not always be realistic and vice versa. i can only speak from my point of view so this is strictly opinionated but this is my blog sooo duh thats what its going to be.. sad to say but men will be men. there is no getting around that, they are like dogs, you throw a dog a bone, hes gonna go for it. u give him a bowl of food, hes going to eat it. you cant put a bowl of food on the ground and say dont eat it doggy lol thats just not real. so i go on to say that its sad but a lot of times u cannot control the actions of stupid ass men. however, i feel like there is just entirely too many women out there who dont respect themselves or others. its a damn shame. to sleep with a married man has to be the lowest of them all. marriage is something you do before God. and as much men as there are out there, there is no need to chase after a MARRIED one. & its sad that women cannot stick together and respect eachother. i mean look at it this way, if a good looking chic catches the attention of ur dude and u dont like it, u will be quick to say something about the chic. thats our nature, aint nothin wrong with that. bc jus like animals, when we feel threatened by something, we react. so the issue i have with this situation is everybody criticizing swizz beats wife for the way she went about confronting a. keys but not realizing that as a woman, alicia already blatantly disrespected the wife in sooooo many ways, so regardless of how the wife goes about it, the mistress deserves to be put on blast. a married man is not yours and will never be yours no matter what that nigga tells you... tsk tsk tsk.